October is always full of travel and celebrations at our house and it leads us right into the holiday season — which I know is too early to discuss in polite company. But we're among friends here, right?
After summer's blistering heat and humidity, the cooler weather draws us outdoors willingly, comfortably outfitted in hoodies and sweaters and jeans, enjoying nature's last hurrah before winter settles in. And as the nights grow longer, I look forward to filling them with little lights: twinkle lights, fires, candles. Candlelight can transform an entirely ordinary evening and I'm happy to have more occasions for it.
This time of year also brings me back to the idea of hearth. We each have our own sense of where the home fire burns (literally or figuratively) — the place where we feel safe and warm and finally able to let our guard down and rest.
For me, that place is the kitchen. This shouldn't be interpreted as an offer to cook every meal for everyone indefinitely... but taking care of that space usually makes me feel more grounded, more ready to face the hard things. There's something steadying when it's busy and warm, orderly yet well-used and smelling delicious, if I do say so.
And during the big family gatherings to come, when I'm tired and overwhelmed, that's probably where you'll find me: piddling away in the kitchen, doing little tasks, putting things in order. Or as I like to think of it, tending the hearth.
As we head into these longer nights and a season full of gatherings, I’d love to know: where (or what) is the hearth for you?
-Sarah